The Meaning of Wedding Flowers

Most people decide whether or not to use a certain flower for their wedding the minute they look at it - however, there's more to flowers than how they look.

A lot of the flower meanings can be tracked back to the Victorian Era. It was improper in those days for a man to come out and tell a lady how he felt, so he would choose a flower with special meaning and send it her instead. Because the meaning of flowers was so well known, the woman receiving them understood the message as clearly as if it was written on a piece of paper.

Today, many people don't use the meaning of flowers to send messages.

Rose Color Meanings:

Red: Love, Beauty, Courage and Respect, Romantic Love, Congratulations, "I Love You", "Job Well Done", Sincere Love, Respect, Courage & Passion

Dark Red: Unconscious beauty

Single Red: "I Love You"

White: Purity, Innocence, Silence, Secrecy, Reverence, Humility, Youthfulness, "I am worthy of you", Heavenly

Pink: Appreciation, "Thank you", Grace, Perfect Happiness, Admiration, Gentleness, "Please Believe Me"

Yellow: Joy, Gladness, Friendship, Delight, Promise of a new beginning, Welcome Back, Remember Me, Jealousy, "I care"

Yellow with Red Tip: Friendship, Falling in Love

Orange: Desire, Enthusiasm

Red and White: Given together, these signify unity

Lavender: Love at first sight, Enchantment

Single in any color: Simplicity, Gratitude

Thorn less Rose: "Love at first sight"

Other Flowers:

Tulips: These are often chosen for spring weddings - and are not only beautiful, but signify an undying love.

Daisies: Daisies are not often used in weddings - but they should be! They stand for romance and an innocent spirit.

Carnations: As one of the most popular flowers in the world, the carnation is widely appreciated and enjoyed. Carnations are available in a variety of colors and are generally symbolic of love and fascination.

Gerbera Daisies: The traditional flower meanings for the gerbera daisy are beauty and innocence.

Sunflowers: Sunflowers' meanings are warmth and adoration, and they are also thought to be a sign of longevity.

 

Questions to ask your Florist

Flowers can either make or break the decorations on your Big Day - so make sure that you are working with the right florist for your wedding.

Here are some questions you should ask your florist before you make your choice:

1. Will the florist delivery the flowers to your wedding, and spend some time setting up and making sure everything is in order?

2. Do they offer rental items such as vases, potted plants, urns - or will you have to contact a rental company?

3. How big are the shop and the number of staff, and who will work on your wedding?

4. Has the florist done a wedding at the same location as yours before? If so, do they have any pictures?

5. What are the trends right now? What is the most innovative concept the florist has brought to a design project?

6. How many weddings will they be doing on the same day or weekend as yours? Make sure they aren't going to be rushed or over booked on your wedding day.

7. Does the florist preserve bouquets after weddings?

8. Which flowers are least likely to wilt in hot weather?

9. How many years of professional experience do you have as a florist?

10. Do you have access to out of season flowers?

11. Are their any alternative to the flowers I am interested in which will lower my cost?

12. What is your delivery fee?

13. What is your set up fee?

14. What is your payment policy?

15. Do you offer a money back guarantee?

16. Do you have liability insurance?

17. Can you provide silk flowers?

18. Can you visit my ceremony and reception site to make floral recommendations?

The following is a list of people and locations you will need flowers for:

• Guest Table
• Cake Table
• Buffet Table
• Bridal Bouquet
• Tossing Bouquet
• Flower Girl
• Main Alter
• Pews
• Reception Hall
• Head Table
• Boutonnières for the Groom, Groomsman, Father of the Bride, Father of the Groom and Grandfathers
• Corsages for the Mother of the Bride, Mother of the Groom and Grandmothers
• Maid of Honor Bouquet
• Bridesmaids Bouquets